Drug Abuse

By Rev. Ned Wicker,

Drug-Addiction-Support.org

I remember a conversation I had with a police detective some 35 years ago. He was telling me about what a mother had told him over the phone about her teenaged son. “Once he’s out of the house, he’s not our difficulty.” The detective, who served an upscale suburban community, was explaining to me that parents can be irresponsible and in his mind virtually criminal in their neglect of kids.

Parents are the most important people in a child’s life. They set the tone for everything. If parents abuse drugs, the youngsters are likely to abuse drugs. If husbands beat their wives, their sons will likely be wife beaters too. If parents divorce and abandon their youngsters, those children are not likely to become model parents either. Parents are the front line in the prevention of drug abuse and there’s so a lot they can do to try to secure the finest feasible future for their kids.

The trouble is parents want schools to do every thing. Teachers turn out to be parents, simply because “once he’s out of the house he’s not our difficulty.” What occurs in the home is much more critical than what happens in the classroom. Parents can set the example by being informed. That begins with understanding the dangers of prescription medication. What is in your medicine cabinet? Do you know what medications are in the house, and how much of that medication you have? Are medications out of date?

Take an inventory and maintain track of what is in the home.

If a medication runs out too rapidly, that is a sign that someone might be abusing that drug. Talk to your children and make this a family project.

Teens specifically will experiment with drugs. They hear about the experiences of their friends. They want to be cool and part of the crowd. If they experiment with the drugs in your house, what will happen? If you have a pain medication, what will that do? If you have a stimulant of some kind, what will that do? What are the dangers of overdose? Ask your self, what are the dangers to my child?

Take control. Be the parent, the adult. Have an open conversation with your youngsters about drugs, specifically the drugs in your home. Stay on top of it and know the inventory. Make connections with principals and teachers at the school, with your family physician and pharmacist, and with local law enforcement officials.

Be savvy. Know what is in your house, in the community and the potential negative impact it will have on your family. Drug abuse prevention starts in the property with responsible parents. Having this family discussion and having a plan about how to deal with the medications in your residence will be an successful preventative measure.